I am led to say these things to you.
- ALL MARRIED WOMEN started from the SCRATCH with their HUSBANDS, including the MARRIED MAN you are SLEEPING WITH that you don’t want TO LEAVE.
It means if you were that WOMAN, you will still have REJECTED THE MARRIED MAN you are DATING TODAY.
The one that supprise’s me the most are LADIES WHO ARE HIDING TO FRIEND the MARRIED MAN they REJECTED when he was SINGLE.
This MAN BEGGED you to MARRY HIM, you refused, today you are HIDING TO SLEEP WITH HIM.
Don’t be AFRAID to have YOUR OWN START.
- When EVERYONE is AWARE you are DATING a particular MARRIED MAN, it makes your CHANCES OF GETTING MARRIED in that same AREA VERY VERY SLIM.
LET HIM GO, and MOVE ON with YOUR LIFE.
Or COME OUT AND MARRY HIM.
There is a little sense in being a SECOND WIFE than a SIDE CHICK.
Even though I don’t advice anyone to be a SECOND WIFE, except that is what you DECIDE FOR YOURSELF.
But a SIDE CHICK, is ONLY GOOD for SEX and FUN, but not good for MARRIAGE and FAMILY LIFE.
This person is OCCUPYING YOUR AIR SPACE.
He is NOT LANDING and he is NOT ALLOWING other PLANE TO LAND.
NO PLANE can LAND at the AIRPORT, if ANOTHER PLANE is OCCUPYING the VERY SPACE they are to LAND INTO the RUN WAY.
- The DAYS WHERE you will JUST SIT AT HOME and ONE MAN will just come and be DOING EVERYTHING for you has PASSED.
We are in the DAYS WHERE THE BOTH OF YOU MUST PUT RESOURCES TOGETHER TO ACHIEVE THINGS.
Even if you MARRY A BILLIONAIRE, he will only give you MONEY FOR BUSINESS may be ONCE or TWICE, if you WASTE that MONEY, by the THIRD TIME, he will begin to SEE YOU as a BURDEN and NOT A BLESSING.
- It is NOT A CRIME for you to be RICHER than your HUSBAND.
It is not IN THE SCRIPTURE that a WOMAN CANNOT BE RICHER than A MAN.
STOP REJECTING SUITORS because you are RICHER THAN THEM.
There is a DIFFERENCE between BUYING LOVE and HELPING YOUR LOVER or SUPPORTING your LOVER.
Know the DIFFERENCE and have PEACE.
IF GOD HAS MADE YOU RICHER than your HUSBAND, it is YOUR DESTINY.
NEVER ALLOW YOUR DESTINY IN FINANCE HINDER YOUR DESTINY IN MARRIAGE.
- No matter how BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE, BEAUTY will ONE DAY FADE AWAY.
Every BEAUTIFUL FACE and FIGURE has an EXPIRY DATE.
In WARRI where I stay, we have SOME LADIES who at A TIME in their LIVES, MEN WERE FIGHTING FOR THEM, today they are the ONES FIGHTING FOR MEN.
WHAT A PARADOX? Remember the BEAUTIFUL ONES ARE NOT YET BORN,
So TAKE YOUR CHANCE before you LOSE IT FOR EVER.
And to you that YOUR MIND TELLS you that YOU ARE NOT VERY VERY BEAUTIFUL, please don’t GIVE A MAN SO MUCH CONDITION, that will ensure your CONDITION don’t CHANGE.
- Don’t think AGE is on YOUR SIDE, so you have all the TIME TO SELECT and HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE’S HUSBAND, be very careful because ONE DAY you will WAKE UP and DISCOVER AGE is gone.
I rather SUFFER WITH MY HUSBAND than to ENJOY WITH ANOTHER WOMAN’S HUSBAND.
In fact, the story is now changing. There are SINGLE GIRLS SUFFERING now with MARRIED MEN in the NAME OF THINGS WILL BE OKAY VERY SOON.
That FAITH you have to BELIEVE GOD for things to IMPROVE with the MARRIED MAN you are DATING, can’t you use it to BELIEVE GOD for things to be BETTER for YOUR OWN HUSBAND?
You can see that you are BEING MANIPULATED.
7 Don’t use your entire life to WAIT FOR MARRIAGE TO COME, and don’t DO ANYTHING MEANINGFUL with your LIFE.
IF MARRIAGE DOESN’T COME , still ensure you ACHIEVE IN OTHER AREAS OF LIFE.
SOME LADIES WAIT for MARRIAGE ALL their LIFE, and forget to MAKE MONEY, forget to TRAVEL ABROAD, forget to DEVELOP THEMSELVES, at every POINT IN TIME they TIE their HAPPINESS and FULFILMENT to MARRIAGE.
AS A LADY A MAN MUST COME AND MARRY YOU, but a man must not SEND YOU ABROAD, SEND YOURSELF.
A MAN MUST NOT BUY CAR FOR YOU, BUY FOR YOURSELF.
A MAN MUST NOT SEND YOU TO SCHOOL, DEVELOP YOURSELF. WHILE WAITING for your HUSBAND TO COME, don’t be WAISTING AWAY.
- As you are GROWING OLD you must of a NECESSITY ADJUST YOUR EXPECTATIONS and CHARACTERISTICS of the KIND of MAN you want to MARRY.
Some CHARACTERISTICS MIGHTY BE OKAY WHEN you are YOUNGER, and are NOT OKAY when you are OLDER.
If you have TEN THINGS you are LOOKING FOR, and YOUR HUSBAND can ONLY AFFORD FIVE of those THINGS or NEEDS, GIVE HIM A CHANCE, that is 50 percent.
50 OVER 100 IS NOT A BAD RESULT.
Just know the BASICS, YOU CANNOT DO WITHOUT.
And FIND A WAY TO OVERLOOK THE REST.
ONE OF THE THINGS I LEARNT VERY EARLY IN LIFE, IS THAT LIFE IS ALWAYS NOT AS YOU THINK.
- ANY CHURCH YOU ATTEND that DISCOURAGE MATURED SINGLE GIRLS FROM MARRYING from OUTSIDE the CHURCH IS NOT GOOD for YOUR SOUL.
That CHURCH is SELFISH and WICKED.
That is how we have SINGLE GIRLS that have become OLD WOMEN because they must MARRY from their CHURCH, and TRIBE.
Do you know HOW MANY OF MY DAUGHTERS I gave out to other MINISTRIES?
The PROBLEM with most PASTORS is that they BELIEVE in their CHURCH and not in the BODY OF CHRIST.
Once I know is a BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH you are BEING MARRIED TO, I give you MY BLESSINGS.
ATLEAST we also have others who are being MARRIED INTO OUR FOLD ALSO.
- Don’t hang around a MARRIED MAN who KEEP TELLING YOU, HE MADE A MISTAKE MARRYING HIS WIFE.
That you are the one he WOULD HAVE MARRIED and not HIS WIFE.
SOME FOOLISH LADIES, have remained on ONE SPOT because of this VERY STATEMENT.
If he made MISTAKE, let him GO AND LIVE WITH HIS MISTAKE.
Most marriages are PRODUCT of MISTAKES.
But MATURITY is the ABILITY to LIVE with your MISTAKE.
And if he chooses to CORRECT HIS MISTAKE DON’T BE IN THE PICTURE, otherwise you will be making a MISTAKE that is BIGGER than HIS OWN MISTAKE.
Never forget the CANE they USE in BEATING the FIRST WIFE, is KEPT UNDER the BED for the SECOND WIFE.
Thanks for reading.