Do not be carried away, we are in a fight with an invisible enemy, and as difficult as it may seem at any point, you must always remember that a fellow believer is not the enemy, neither can a fellow believer be the physical manifestation of the enemy, however a fellow believer may be used by the enemy on some occasions, and whenever this happens, believe the cause is ignorance and nothing else. Once this is achieved within you, three things will begin to happen;
1) The energy you would have used to lash back at a fellow believer would be converted to energy of understanding more about our warfare and who we are up against, and exactly how we are to combat that fellow.
2) You would begin to have joy. Why? You’ll simply never read meaning to anything anyone does again, simply because you can now see what spirit is at work, and how to navigate around believers who are consistently prone to be used by that spirit.
3) You will become sober seeing that on several occasions you have also been used ignorantly by the devil to afflict other believers, either through unguarded speech or the secret desire to attack people subtly with words.