OVERCOMING THE 7 AREAS OF OFFENCE IN RELATING WITH YOUR FATHER AS A SON – Bishop Irabor Wisdom

Matthew 11 vs. 6.
And blessed is he, whosoever shall not be offended in me.
There is a blessing in not being offended with your Spiritual Father and also with your fellow brethren.
Offences will break your Defences.

Luke 17 vs.1
Then said he unto the disciples, It is impossible but that offences will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come!
Offences must come, but you must guide against it.

I have noticed how so many sons get offended with their spiritual Father and disconnect in their followership.
Never forget the 7 Points you are about to see. They are very simple but the damage is very heavy.

1. WHEN THE FATHER HAS A PRINCIPLE AND POLICY OF NOT PICKING CALLS:
To so many Fathers, phone call is a great distraction to connecting with Heaven. There are Fathers that will not touch their PHONE until they touch the THRONE with their prayers and fellowship.
Some Fathers also prefer SMS to phone calls.
So study them and adjust to what is convenient for them.

2. GOING TO SEE THEM IN THEIR OFFICE WITHOUT THEM ACCEPTING TO SEE YOU:
Are you on appointment?
If No, you don’t have any reason to see them at your own time. They must give you an appointment for you to see them.
Learn from my last experience with my Father, God’s Servant Pastor KK. I went to drop my First-Fruit with him for the year 2021. I got there and was told he is on sit, that I should wait for them to tell him that I was around. I told the young man “Daddy is busy in preparation for Service and I don’t want to see him. All I want is to be allowed to kneel on the Altar and pray, then drop it on the Altar”. I was asked to do just that.
There are young men that think because they came with Offering, their Father must see them. It doesn’t work that way. Your father is not hungry, neither is he poor, you are the one that needs what he Carry’s.

3. WHEN OTHER SONS ARE BEING CELEBRATED BY THE SAME FATHER OPENLY WITHOUT NO REFERENCE TO YOU:
Never get angry when you see your Father celebrate fellow sons or any son, you don’t know the price of loyalty, followership and honour they have paid.
Some sons are loved, some are not just loved, they are liked for the things they do.
Go and find out the things they do. Remember God had respect for Abel’s offering and not that of Cain.
So fathers are moved by the things we do as sons to prove our honour and loyalty.

4. WHEN THE FATHER REFUSES TO COME and PREACH FOR YOU EVEN AFTER YOUR YEARS OF FOLLOWERSHIP:
Real Fathers don’t preach for Honorarium, they preach for Honour. They don’t preach because you invite them, they preach because they have relationship with you, or with a friend and brother who recommended you.
He doesn’t need to climb your Altar for you to be called a Son. Impactation is HEART to HEART and not ALTAR to ALTAR.

5. WHEN YOU FEEL BECAUSE YOU HAVE BEEN SOWING INTO HIS LIFE, HE SHOULD ALSO HELP YOU NOW THAT YOU HAVE A PROBLEM:
Never ask for money from anyone you call your Father. What you need is their Mantle and not their Money. I have never asked for money from my Father and Mentors, and I will never ask. Everyday I ask God to bless me to bless them.
I have also discovered that sons who Fathers help the most, misbehave the most. It makes them begin to see you as a financial helper and not a spiritual Father.

6. WHEN YOU ARE IN HIS MEETING AND YOU ARE NOT ASKED TO SIT IN THE FRONT ROW OR YOUR NAME WAS NOT MENTIONED WHEN INTRODUCING OTHER SONS:
Fathers must prove you before placing you. Most Fathers know very well that some sons are not consistent in their followership, so they will watch you very well before they publicly honour you.
Any name you hear on the Altar, has a very strong relationship of honour with the Sent Man.
But never forget, where you sit in a meeting is not as important as who is sitting on the chair.
If a Governor is on the back row, he is still the Governor of those on the front row.
One of the things I do when attending meetings under my Father, is to remove my mind from everything carnal, like where you are to sit and your name being mentioned. It is always a big source of distraction for many.

7. WHEN HE IS TELLING YOU TO AVOID A WRONG MINISTRY PATTERN AND TO STAY AWAY FROM ANYTHING FAKE:

SOME SONS ARE LOOKING FOR FATHERS THAT CAN HIDE THEIR FAKENESS.
The greatest asset of a Fake Pastor is a Genuine Father.
You can deceive your Spiritual Father but you can’t deceive your Heavenly Father.
The day your Father can no longer correct you, he has lost his fatherhood role over your life.
Dear Son, don’t be offended with your Father. If his counsel is not right today, it will be right tommorow.
NOTHING FAKE LASTS FOREVER.

You are Blessed.
Thanks for Reading.

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