Ladies, let’s avoid the mental and emotional trap of yearning for a love that is not pursuing us ~ Laurie Idahosa

Ladies, let’s avoid the mental and emotional trap of yearning for a love that is not pursuing us. It eats away at our self-esteem and takes up unnecessary space in our mind and emotions.

Most all of us have chased after a love that isn’t chasing after us. We call first, text first, plan all of the dates, check our phones and internally sulk when he isn’t as excited about us. We use all kinds of formulas and tricks to get his attention, only to discover that when we get it, its short-lived or divided. We keep chasing because we replay the times that he made us smile, in hope of a reenactment. We underestimate the amount of damage that an unhealthy relationship is doing to us.

If you are sad that he doesn’t call you back or reply your messages, chances are, there’s a much longer lasting disappointment waiting for you. Be grateful that he is undervaluing you now, while you can safely leave, not after you say “I Do.”

Let me clarify, if you are married and are experiencing this, the rules have already changed. We can’t leave when he doesn’t pay us the kind of attention we deserve. We have other ways of turning the situation around, staring with prayer, communication, being the woman that will attract and keep him, finding fulfillment in your own purpose and aspirations, etc… that’s a lesson for another day. 😉

“A good woman is hard to find,
and worth far more than diamonds…” Prov. 31 (message Bible)

When you know your worth from the inside out, you will glow with confidence and be the sought after in your relationship.

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